Sunday, July 12, 2009

3. How can you say that the feeling a person has for another is true love? Cite instances that happened to you or to others.

Love? Well I am experiencing lots of love right now From my family and friends. But for someone special?A male? I don't know. I have not experienced being loved in a special way. A way that my family nor friends could not give. Even so, I believe in true love. And how do an inexperienced person like me describe it? Well, I got the definition from my parents. They are turning fifty but they seem like teenagers to me. I can still observe those shallow arguments that I can see in my classmates and their lovers. After a while, they are back in each others' arms again. Yes, I know it sounds disgusting. I also asked my father one time:"Pa, si mama ba dati maganda, maputi at sexy?" My father replied yes. And then I asked again "pano ngayun opposite na sya?" " eh ano naman?" he said. I didn't reply anymore. Sice then, I knew what true love is. I also wondered. Ever sice they are married they would just see each other 2 months a year. That must be very painful. She is miles away from the love of her life?Not knowing if he has found another but still she remains confident. She still seems to be inlove for the very first time whenever she tells us stories. Even when we tell her how "malandi" she is, she doesn't care because she is inlove,just like the very first time. My father must be very inlove too. I can say that my mother is very moody, bossy, spoiled, maarte, bruha, suplada and not even in good terms with her in-laws. But still my father is very patient.He is very committed. He kept his vows to my mother that is why i admire him.

Through them I learned what true love is. It is something you will hope for your whole life. So, now I can judge if someone or I myself is feeling true love towards another. However I can say that it is a long time process. If you don't care about the physical changes, you accept the person's attitude and willing to help her change for the better then you qualify for being truly in love. Because love is not a matter of kisses and hugs. It is a matter of the heart that if proven real, and true would guarantee a lifetime happiness.

2. Why sometimes our blessings seem to be a disaster to us?

Sometimes people do not recognize blessings given by the Lord. Say for an example, an unwanted pregnancy. Every life given by the lord is a blessing. However, parents tend to abort. They treat the baby as a mistake. They choose killing the innocent baby than furnishing him with love and care. We don't recognize our blessings unless we've lost them. We tend to be unappreciative of the things given to us. All the people, things or events that we meet are already parts of our lives. We must treasure them.

Why do some people derive pleasure from the misfortunes of those who are exceedingly blessed than they are?

Some people who are exceedingly blessed are envied by others who are less fortunate. This is the main reason why some people tend to feel happy for themselves when they see the fortunate people suffering. They feel vindicated. One example is the story of Cupid and Psyche. Venus, is less fortunate than Psyche because Psyche is lovelier than she is. Time came when Psyche had to suffer in Venus's hands. Venus felt extremely pleasured while punishing Psyche. She felt that they are already "quits". That is one reason why people tend to be happy for others' misfortunes. This feeling could not be avoided but we can stop it. At first it is like a benign tumor that if you ignore would turn into a malignant one. Meaning: once we start being happy for others' misfortune, we must control ourselves if we do not want to be worst.

SENIOR LIFE>>>

YEs! you're right...after all those worried nights, thinking if I would be kicked out or not? Finally! I am a fourth year student. I thought all my problems have ended. Now i know all those worries would soon prepare me for more nights of shedding tears and growing more eye bags. My new problem would be my research study. Yes just like all the other fourth year students. I have gone through many changes before finalizinig my research study( it was supposed to be finalized 1st week of June). At first,I have to test if water hyacinth can absorb heavy metals. My parter with that study is Dionido. Well it didnt't work out because the school change policies and we have to work individually. So I came up with another research, this time it is concerning rabbits. Not just rabbits, 45 rabbits!And not only 45 rabbits but rabbits from BFAD.Oh my goodness. But after all my talkings, the rabbits were decreased to twenty and then to eighteen. Even so they are stil many and they must come from BFAD. To deal with all my problems, I have to look for any journal that would prove my research useless. I failed. So after two months I came up with my recent research. The species diversity of insects in Cavite National Science High School!! YEs!!MENOS GASTOS!!!!