Sunday, July 12, 2009

3. How can you say that the feeling a person has for another is true love? Cite instances that happened to you or to others.

Love? Well I am experiencing lots of love right now From my family and friends. But for someone special?A male? I don't know. I have not experienced being loved in a special way. A way that my family nor friends could not give. Even so, I believe in true love. And how do an inexperienced person like me describe it? Well, I got the definition from my parents. They are turning fifty but they seem like teenagers to me. I can still observe those shallow arguments that I can see in my classmates and their lovers. After a while, they are back in each others' arms again. Yes, I know it sounds disgusting. I also asked my father one time:"Pa, si mama ba dati maganda, maputi at sexy?" My father replied yes. And then I asked again "pano ngayun opposite na sya?" " eh ano naman?" he said. I didn't reply anymore. Sice then, I knew what true love is. I also wondered. Ever sice they are married they would just see each other 2 months a year. That must be very painful. She is miles away from the love of her life?Not knowing if he has found another but still she remains confident. She still seems to be inlove for the very first time whenever she tells us stories. Even when we tell her how "malandi" she is, she doesn't care because she is inlove,just like the very first time. My father must be very inlove too. I can say that my mother is very moody, bossy, spoiled, maarte, bruha, suplada and not even in good terms with her in-laws. But still my father is very patient.He is very committed. He kept his vows to my mother that is why i admire him.

Through them I learned what true love is. It is something you will hope for your whole life. So, now I can judge if someone or I myself is feeling true love towards another. However I can say that it is a long time process. If you don't care about the physical changes, you accept the person's attitude and willing to help her change for the better then you qualify for being truly in love. Because love is not a matter of kisses and hugs. It is a matter of the heart that if proven real, and true would guarantee a lifetime happiness.

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